WHAT IS A WOMAN?
What makes a woman is societal, biological, genetic, physical, and historical. We are not just lipstick and a dress as the left seems to think. Men with Gender Dysphoria, and those that see them as women, demean and cheapen our identity, our history, and our struggles with this shallow understanding of us. Women are not physical characters of some sleazy whore, which is generally how men with Gender Dysphoria like to dress up as. I suppose this is how they see us. This is insulting and demeaning. We aren't just people in sleazy dresses who wear a ton of makeup. Why is this shallow view of women accepted by anyone? Black face is not acceptable, so why is this? It’s the same thing. If a white person identified as black and put on black face, and took Affirmative Action opportunities from black people, we would all have a fit. Why are so few standing for women over this topic? It’s frustrating. I get we are the weaker sex, but shouldn’t that cause all of you to want to help protect the progress, spaces, and opportunities it took us centuries to obtain?
Women are not just shallow things that one can become by throwing on a dress, lipstick, and claiming it to be true. Women have physical and biological differences. Our brains, hormones, bone density, size, strength, private parts, chromosomes, DNA, periods and giving birth, our hair follicles are even different. We have historical meaning, centuries of struggle and inequality. A man is not like a woman at all, and when they just throw on a dress and think that’s all we are, then it cheapens our history, our struggles, and our identity.
Women have suffered in this country, but this suffering has gone on far longer than that. We have suffered since the dawn of time. Being the weaker sex has not been easy. A man shouldn't be able to come along after the centuries of hard work was done and claim our identity as their own. A man is physically stronger than a woman. I hear people trying to debate that point, but it’s ridiculous and blatantly bias or partisan to do so. There have been rampant examples of men throwing on a dress and taking women's spaces, and opportunities away. This should not be acceptable to anyone. Especially considering women’s history in this country.
Then there are societal differences that have shaped women. This is one area where men, including Trans-Men, have a difficult time understanding. It is difficult for me to even explain. But this lack of their understanding is one reason they don’t know what a woman is and think all they need to do to become one is throw on a dress, usually one that shows a ton of cleavage. This is another reason why so many men rolled their eyes at us women when we asked for them to not enter our locker rooms and bathrooms. Since they cannot understand it, they assumed it was because we thought they were perverts, or because we were “transphobic “, which is ridiculous. It has nothing to do that, and has everything to do with them being men, and because they are men, it’s hard for them to grasp what I am attempting to explain. We are weaker than them because they are men. Since the dawn of time women have been vulnerable to men, including forced marriages, rape, incest, beatings, kidnapping, torture, abuse of every kind, and even death. Because of our lack of physical strength, we evolved into watching our surroundings, being cautious, avoiding conflict sometimes to the point of our own demise, and choosing partners because they seem tough (bad boys) for protection, and even how we shop for homes and cars. Not all women are the same, but that layer is within us. Men don’t have that layer, and that alone puts them at an advantage over us; even if we don’t consider their obvious advantage of physical strength. When these men use these their natural advantages against us, how do you expect women feel? Oppressed once again by men, but this time, they mock us while they take everything. We are the physically weaker sex, and to suggest that has not had an impact on female behaviors over the centuries would be naïve, but men with Gender Dysphoria have no idea about this because they are not women. They have not evolved into this over thousands of years. Their experiences, nor any amount of bullying they may have endured, does not compare to an entire society transforming women into what we are today. Any man reading this right now will likely have no idea what I speak of. The societal shaping of women is far too deep. We can't defend ourselves like men can, and over thousands of years of dealing with safety issues, it shaped us. Men who have Gender Dysphoria shrug that off while they put on their lipstick, they call us names when we don’t want them in our spaces, because they cannot understand our burden and because it's never been an issue for them as a man. If they knew how hard it was for us, they wouldn’t be so eager to erase us.
Women and men are not alike at all. To have a man appropriate our gender and demean it into something as shallow as lipstick and a dress demeans all the women fore bearers and everything they struggled for. We are not just lipstick and a dress. We are women... societal, historically, biologically, genetically, emotionally, and physically. To base what a woman is solely on how that man with gender dysphoria thinks a woman should look like is wrong. Especially since they generally see us as sleazy and cheap. Often choosing to portray themselves in short skirts, high heels, and tons of makeup. Is that really all they think we are? These men demean and cheapen what it means to be a woman and all our struggles, not just in the past but every day still.
A man with gender dysphoria is not going to know what it's like to worry about wearing white when we get close to our period, or how it feels like to go through puberty and have much stronger boys pick on us for our new breasts forming, or the fear of carrying a child in our own bodies or worrying about what we are eating for that child. They will never know what it’s like to worry about the change of life, menopause, or to compete at a much lower level, or how we need to get assistance (from a man or a tool) to lift/carry heavy items. Men will never know what it’s like to feel vulnerable all the time. No man will ever go through those societal, biological, or physical changes. They are not us, and it is demeaning for them to just throw on a dress and think that's all we are about. How did we allow this to even get this ridiculous? How can people fight against black face but allow this charade?
I am not saying that we shouldn’t have compassion for men with Gender Dysphoria, and if they need to wear a dress to feel better about themselves, I don’t wish them ill will, but please do not think that makes you a woman, because that is hurtful. If you want compassion and understanding for your illness, please return it and admit, You Are Not a Woman. We do not share an identity. Please stay out of our spaces, out of our sports, and out of our identity.
Furthermore, I am not saying that women want to win the victim Olympics. We fought for centuries to remove ourselves from that description of weakness, but now society wants to put us in a box, but without an identity or recognition of the accomplishments, struggles, or history that define us. No one will even allow our voices to rise up for fear of the intolerant bullies on the left. They want women to sit down and shut up. Matt Walsh, a man, and others like him have voiced some concerns and it is appreciated, but shouldn’t women be speaking up? Matt did a great job, but being a man, he doesn’t even tell the full story because I don’t think he can tell the full story as a man. He has not lived the story. Where are the voices of women on this subject? We are being silenced and our story is not being heard, we must speak louder! I know most women don’t like conflict much and we generally tend to be more compassionate, but we are hurting our legacy and our young girls by not being as brave as the women that came before us. We don’t want the title of victim, we just want our title of woman to not be cheapened, demeaned or misinterpreted. We want our identity back.
God Bless.